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if anyone in the room here ever
thought
I belong to those in the room
here has
ever had to deal with suicide suicide is still a
big taboo atmosphere
it is not much talked about the
netherlands a special country prosperous
how health
no one has to lead 100 many reasons
to be happy
happiness depends on a lot of
factors one of which is social capital
and if we believe all research possible
then we are happier more often
if we have more contact with family
with neighbors with friends and if they
can have confidence in
society the netherlands
we belong to one of the richest countries
in the world
any idea that the drill is on
qatar any idea where the netherlands is
number 13
on the list of all the richest
countries we just got the
unlucky number we later germany
france england behind us and all
european countries are only
luxembourg switzerland and norway above
us
how lucky kig we are now following is all
research we give ourselves in the
Netherlands and figures 7.9
when it comes to how happy we are
according to the world database of happiness
this figure is even looking
independence hey fishing and youth
better and more contacts through this figure
even time what about
and 7.9 that also falls under the category
good what about our children
how happy are our children in the
Netherlands are mumps according to
research by unicef are our child
en have been happy in the world have been
round for a while at number 1
we dutch are the happiest
europeans in the workplace
76 percent are satisfied with his or her
work
that still looks like an
unbelievably beautiful picture
hello everyone i'm paula's with and
i survived a suicide attempt
but let's see the others can
also take a good look at van de madalina the
netherlands has more than 17 million
people one million people in the netherlands
use antidepressants
but we give o We are still almost
and 8 so happy we are one in 17
there are about 600 people in the
room
that means that 35 people here in the
room use
antidepressants and I
am not even talking about the many other
addictions such as alcohol and drugs
why I use antidepressants
when they are so happy there is an old one is
rising sharply and this figure is stabbing it
works among young adults between 15 and
25 years old
but number 1 in the ranking
that we are satisfied with our work the
netherlands he is only one in the five
households have problematic
debts
how many people in the netherlands
think about suicide per year in digid
if I say 400,000
scares you then 400,000 people think that
a 25% converts that we actually convert
into an attempt
100,000 people think so at that moment
that they no longer want to live are these
figures correct are expected
to be much higher this subject
is a very heavy
taboo one thing we do know for sure five people
in the netherlands commit suicide
every five hours, one
that means that today during this
event
two people in the netherlands commit
suicide
worldwide
more than a million people commit suicide every year
for unicef
ildren are the happiest and lucky
ones after all suicide cause
of death number one among the
15 to 25 age group and
unfortunately rising rapidly I often meet
young people in my practice and
I am really worried about
bullying
insecurity expectations for the
future loneliness and
many more reasons
that young people struggle with I keep these
contradictory numbers
still speak of we are so happy
and unlucky at the same time if we
compare this with traffic accidents also
crazy sadness and then that
number is
around 600 per year we can take
measures here and set the goal
because, for example, to reduce to
500 a year too 500 too much but
what can we do
what can we do what can they do
to reduce suicide
and taboos where an unbelievably
large veil or a close
what can we do in suicide
suicide
can we do anything at all even the
name is difficult
suicide suicide step in and it
is allowed if I can no longer live with myself
as I experienced it myself and
I really had everything
my dear husband 2 children a nice job
in care
a beautiful house a very unhappy in every
sense of the word
I felt with kept just had
shame and guilt and I had an
incredible amount of fear that it would not
be good enough often I have used it
more often
but I was not really understood I
had everything
my parents were always there but have
me with cake that the most important thing
to always take care of change
but not my own i was
just taking care of others that i
had lost myself completely there and
there because of this I got even more tension that
I sleep worse and I
feel worth nothing at all and the
shame only got bigger and bigger
I was able to soften that unhappy
with a layer of
another glass many more lockers
until I really air alcoholics
every morning do you wake up and before you
another accident hour and
with a hangover those predominant grinding
thoughts
everyone would be better off without me
what else are they going to do with my
that became truth
the thought i can't stop no matter
how much i wanted to do
something i the people too short
people wanted to talk to me
but i wanted to finish it all too
painful too much shame and too much
guilt
when i actually screamed up
and the isolation
got bigger and bigger
and then comes the famous drop
my husband could do it I couldn't handle it anymore either I
saw them in there is also sadness
from the children and I really couldn't handle it
anymore
at that moment I made a decision t taken
and all well I was literally and figuratively
off the path I had to ask for the way to the
station even though I
really knew that but at that moment the
light went out
I can't remember anything anymore how I
just cycled the station then suddenly you stand on those
rails
and then you hear
I train then you see that train coming
and of course you all think and
now driver then I understand but the
I didn't think about it anymore and I wanted to
stop when enough
it was all the same day
I became woke up in the hospital and i did
n't know then that my left foot and my
right leg had been amputated
when body was numb all
i felt was more shame and
more guilt
the attempt had failed
you wake up with the even bigger
nightmare and i still wanted death
i only had one thought how can i
finish this
the period after has been very hard
so i can't put it into words
people avoid you check you out living out of the way
in a village really doesn't make it any
easier because everyone knows
fear and shame really made me
want this has been
a really easy process i
lost my job of course i was
disabled and i had caused it all myself a
lot of people will
and can my never understand that you
do such a thing
and i understand that and i sincerely hope
you never come to understand me because if you
go along understand then you are as far
gone as i do what
anyway i dare say that is a
turning point has been in my life
I ended up in a
rehabilitation center where or coupled with people who
all had disabilities such as a
spinal cord injury
or all-sided paralysis I felt
minutes of not being so alone anymore
and at least I understood each other
and finally I came to a very deep
realization that i feel will take care and that
i am responsible for my own
life
how can i take care of another when
i don't even know I can take care of myself
how can I love someone else if I am
not one of my own o no that I have become
disabled I have been
untrained for eleven years as a psychotherapist
adam coach I have had a well-
run practice for years and I am quite
good with people mean
but I am very happy with
that I also guide people relatives of
suicide or people who have attempted suicide
the personal situations I experience
in my practice make us realize that
suicide is
much more alive than we
think there is shame in it people
so we want it very hard but
about the
to talk about it
i have two sons my beautiful son
alexander
preferably at the age of 32 himself would
he take life away from his
life or say goodbye to his life
i don't have that saw it coming
there were problems but they were
all solved job i spoke to him of
course
alexandra meant everything to us and his
family this is my great
sadness
i know from experience that things
can work out and that sometimes in your life you go
through a difficult process but there
will also come a day when you will be aware for the first time
that life is unique my
beautiful son alexander goes this do
n't experience
it anymore but the only thing i want to ask you all
is if people wrestle glasses
please don't ai do not shy
away from the conversation
don't make it small
open questions like for example can
you do this dragon alone or do you walk around
with thoughts of I can't take it anymore
or what is your fear
please don't come with judgments or
advice please if you
can give meaning to something bad
do it then I often heard people
say to me
you have everything or you that say
no doing crazy things people also said
to me
I myself would never do such a thing
I didn't want to die at all in the end
I just wanted to get rid of my
shame of my guilt feeling of my
loneliness amheid
I felt even less than not my
message remains and those who are
stuck in their lives
please don't keep
walking around alone
it can happen to anyone
and I repeat please don't
walk around alone
you can definitely meet someone who
will listen to you and who you understands
the environment can just give that last push
let's really see each other again
then we're rich with me it's
over
I want without becoming
my dark period I needed
to become who I am now
happy thank you
[Applause]

if anyone in the room here ever

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stabbing::adjective | Spocien Dictionary

stabbing

adjective

causing physical or especially psychological injury

Type	Words
Synonyms	wounding

a stabbing remark.

stabbing::adjective | Spocien Dictionary

stabbing

adjective

painful as if caused by a sharp instrument

Type	Words
Synonyms	cutting, keen, knifelike, lancinate, lancinating, piercing

a stabbing pain.

How to pronounce stabbing in Dutch?

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