And if so, have you found abetter use for it, or been beaten up for using it in public?
From the hecklerspray.com
Kfir and Elram Gavrieli, along with their 32-year old sister, Dikla, have abetter alternative.
From the yallsjoynt.com
Perish the thought, but maybe The Salvation Army is in abetter position to assist those women who have been abused.
From the guardian.co.uk
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Abettor: one who helps or encourages or incites another
Abettor (from to abet, Old French abeter, u00E0 and beter, to bait, urge dogs upon any one; this word is probably of Scandinavian origin, meaning to cause to bite), is a legal term implying one who instigates, encourages or assists another to commit an offence.
One who abets; an instigator of an offense or an offender